55 – 74 First Date Tips
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55. Stand up when your date goes to the powder room.
During the course of your date, it is possible for her to excuse herself and go to the powder room. When she does that, it is best if you stand up together with her. It would show her that you respect her. Aside from that, it also shows how gentleman you are, and would definitely impress her.
56. Check your zipper.
Do not be ashamed in closing your zipper in front of your date if you really need to. To prevent this from happening, then it is best to constantly check it, especially prior to arriving at the venue. Fixing it means that you are quick in correcting your errors. If you won’t fix it immediately, you cannot expect her not to notice it eventually.
57. Know how to dance.
Even if you do not possess the natural talent of dancing, it is still a good idea to learn how to do it. Dancing can he learned, and it is important when you go on a date, even on your first date. If you know how to dance, then you can impress your date more. Aside from that, you would also become more confident in taking her to the dance floor.
58. The things you want to know about a woman.
There are things that you need to know about a woman on your first date. It is important to know these things, so that you can see if she is worth investing your time and effort on. Such things would include her likes, dislikes, and whether she is involved with someone or not.
59. Carrying on with the conversation.
One of the biggest obstacles that you may encounter during the first date is the times when you experience complete silence. Although you are having a good conversation, it can be awkward in experiencing these moments of silence. Thus, it is best that you know how to counter it immediately. Always remember that there are lots of different things that you can talk about. Aside from that, come up with a question, so that you can continue talking.
60. Compliment her.
Even if you are dating a very beautiful girl, you should keep in mind that she also has insecurities. Thus, you should not forget in complimenting her. Give her compliments that are sincere and genuine, so that they can have more effect on her. Focus on her hair, her skin, her clothes, and her shoes. Aside from that, telling her that she is beautiful at the instant you meet her can also work.
61. Don’t forget to tell her how brave you are and state examples of it.
Women love their men to be brave, since most of them expect their men to have the ability to protect them and give them courage. Thus, if you have certain experiences in life that depict how brave you are then state them. For example, if you have saved some people in a fire then tell her about it. Don’t mention the word brave and let her find out that you possess this trait.
62. It is not time to discuss your past relationships on your first date.
Your first date is not the time for you to discuss your past relationships in. This is because, your date is not interested about your past yet. He or she wants to know how you are at the present first, before your date digs deeper. Only reveal your past, once you have dated for a good number of times already.
63. When to date if she is not available after her work.
If she has lots of things to take care of after her work duties, then you may ask her to go on a lunch date with you. Taking a lunch break together can be an interesting way of going on a first date with someone you like. By spending just a short amount of time with her during lunch, you may be able to know why she can’t go after work, and do something about it, especially if she is interested in seeing more of you.
To be considered as one of the nice guys, you should know what it means to them. Women see nice guys as someone who has a stable background, desirable, presentable, trustworthy, helpful, discreet, and friendly. Aside from that, women also see nice guys as fun to be with.
65. Avoid the movies for the first date.
It is not a good idea to watch a movie for your first date. Aside from the fact that it is not safe for the ladies, it would also not give you a chance to talk to each other more. When you are inside the movie house, you would not be able engage into so much interaction; and, this would defeat the purpose of getting to know each other better.
66. Pay attention to your date’s behavior.
During your date, it is very possible that you can only notice the positive traits of your partner, especially if you like him a lot. However, you still need to be paying attention to the negative traits. Try to see if you can stand his negative traits, since that would tell you more about whether you can be in a relationship with him or not.
67. Avoid each other’s homes on your first date.
It is always best to be at a neutral territory on your first date. Stay away from each other’s home, since it may get you both tempted to go insider together and do something inside the bedroom. Staying away from your homes would help you prevent having sex, which is something that you should not do on the first date.
68. Be mature.
There are certain people who may tend to play games during their first date, such as pretending to be not interested to the other person, when they are indeed interested. You may think that this is a good strategy. However, it may only send out the wrong signals, which can turn off the other person. Be mature and show the other person what you really feel.
69. Don’t play the Mr. Nice Guy role too much.
Although lots of women like nice guys, overdoing it can have its negative consequences as well. For example, if you are being too friendly, then your partner may eventually see you as a friend material instead of someone to have a relationship with. For example, if there is something that either of you can decide on, such as what to do next after eating dinner, it is best if you can make the decision for it, so that your date would realize how manly you are.
70. How women want to read between the lines.
Aside from women being good in reading between the lines, you should be aware that they want you do be good at it as well. In other words, during your first date, she may tell you something, which means another thing. For example, if she tells you that she is fat, then she may want you to tell her that she is beautiful. Aside from that, her Maybe can also mean No. Take note of these things, so that you can respond well.
71. How to show that you are interested.
If you are really interested in your date, then you should show it. Showing it can be done by saying it. Aside from that, you can also use your body language for it. Thus, if she is leaning towards you and you want to reciprocate, then you should also move closer to her. Send out positive signals, so that you would both be able to enjoy your first date.
72. Put your mobile phone in silent mode.
One of the things that can insult the other person you are dating is to take calls and send out text messages, while you are eating dinner. Thus, it is best to put your phone on silent mode or vibrate mode during the date, so that the text messages and calls won’t disturb you. If you really need to check on something, then excuse yourself and go to the comfort room.
73. Listen well.
During the date, you may think that one of the most important things to do to make the most out of it is to talk. However, you need to consider that the other person may also want to share his or her experiences to you as well. Thus, you should know when to listen, and you should listen well, so that you can respond appropriately.
74. What to do if you feel nervous about your first date.
If you feel nervous about your first date, you should know that it is quite normal. However, if it bothers you, then you should take a deep breath, just before going to the venue of your date. Aside from that, you should believe in yourself, and be more confident, so that your nervousness would not get the better of you.