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31. Never interrupt.
When you are on your first date, and you are beginning to have a good conversation with the other person, it is important not to interrupt. This is because, interrupting your date is a sign of disrespect. Let your date finish what he or she is talking about first, before asking another question or responding.
32. What to do to find out if he is really interested in you after your first date.
Even if you had a great time on your first date, you may still wonder whether he is really into you or not. To find out whether he is really interested in you, then you should wait a couple of days for his call. Be patient, since a man would find a way to spend more time with you if he really wants to. If he does not give you a call, then move on.
33. Be a shoulder that she can lean on.
In dating the woman of your dreams for the first time, you should show her that you are like a shoulder that she can lean on anytime she wants. Women need their men to be strong, confident, and someone who knows what to do in different situations. Thus, do not be a crybaby, and show her that you have emotional strength.
34. Do not forget that women like to talk.
Most women like to talk, even those who seem to be the silent type. With that, if you want your date to have a good time and the same time, get to know her better, then you should let her talk and listen attentively. To get her started, all you have to do is to ask the right questions; and, make sure that they cannot be answered by a simple yes or no.
35. Make her trust you.
In order to let a woman open up to you, you need to show her that you can be trusted. Trusting someone is not easy for most women, since they usually get hurt easily. Thus, you need to work in earning her trust, and you should start on it even on the very first time that you go out with her.
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36. Do not touch your date without considering if she likes it or not.
You have to learn to read signals that would tell you whether a woman wants to be touched or not. If she is leaning towards you, and touching you lightly, then it means that you can reciprocate. It is very important that she shows signs that she wants to be touched before initiating it, so that you won’t spoil everything.
37. Dating is fun, but it requires effort.
You have to invest effort, especially on your first date, so that you would be able to make it a fun activity. Aside from that, it would also give you chance to learn more things about the other person. Through your first date, you would already be able to get an idea whether he or she is worth investing more of your time and efforts on.
38. Do not expect something from your date that you do not possess or capable of doing.
On your first date, you should not expect something anything from the other person that you, yourself are not capable of doing. Aside from that, you should also not expect too much from your date, so that you won’t get disappointed. Know yourself, so that you know what you can expect from him or her.
39. Be the one to pay for the date.
Even if your first date was not really planned, or it happened spontaneously, you as the man, should always be the one to pay for it. Keep in mind that lots of women today may be willing to pay for the dinner or something. To impress her, you should be able to reach into your pocket first, and shoulder all the expenses on your date.
40. What things you want to discover on your first date.
There is no need to dig in so deep when it comes to gathering information about your partner on your first date. However, even if it is good to focus more on lighter topics, it is also best if you get a better idea on what he or she believes in, as well as their goals. Ask questions if you have to, but do not insist if your date looks for a reason not to answer them.
41. Observe how your date treats the waiter or the waitress.
On your first date, one of the things that you can watch out for is how he or she treats the restaurant staff. If your date is rude to the waiter or the waitress, then there is a big chance that he or she is an obnoxious person. If that is the case, then there is no reason to get on a second date with the person.
42. Soft touches.
If your date gives out signals that she wants to be touched, then you should remember that women usually love soft touches. You may be able to get a chance to do this while you are talking pretty close to each other, or when you are dancing. Touch her softly, so that she can feel how you admire her.
43. Keep it mysterious.
Lots of women love to date with mysterious men, since it sparks their curiosity, which excites them more. Thus, on your first date, it is a good idea to give out some details about yourself, but do not do reveal everything. Aside from sparking their curiosity, it would also make them want to learn more about you, which would increase your chances for a second date.
44. Palm reading.
One of the best ways to impress a woman on your first date is to read her palm. This is because lots of women love their palms read, since it gives them a chance to learn something about their future, even if it may not be true. Aside from that, it would also give you a chance to hold her hands.
45. Do not think too much of the future.
On your first date, it is possible for you to think too much of your future. In other words, you may begin to wonder whether he or she may be your potential husband or wife, and such. Since you are even not in a relationship yet, do not think about these things about your future. Just focus on experiencing the date, so that you can have more fun in it.
46. Give the date another a chance.
Keep in mind that on your first date, it is also possible that you may not hit if off with the other person immediately. Thus, if you are not sure if you are really interested or not, then it is a good idea to give the other person a chance. Go out for a few more times, so that you can have a better idea if you want to go out with the other person more.
47. How to impress your date by your looks.
A good combination of shaving your face, dressing nicely, and having a good posture would help you score some points with the woman you are dating. This is very important on your first date. This is because, the said combination would make you look like a man who can take care of himself, looks good, and is confident.
48. Don’t overdo on being polite.
Although lots of women would appreciate it when you open up doors for them, it is best not to overdo it. Opening up the door to the restaurant for your date would surely impress her. However, if you overdo it by opening every door that you come across with in strolling in the mall, then she may think that you are treating her like a helpless girl.
49. Know yourself better.
On your first date, it is very possible for the woman to ask you questions about yourself. She may ask you about what you want to achieve in your life; and, if you show signs that you are not sure about your answer, then it may turn her off. Know yourself better, so that you can give out answers that would impress her.
50. Having a business card on your first date.
If you have a business card, bringing it along on your first date is actually a good idea. This is because, you may be able to find a chance to give it to her to remember you by. Since it would contain your contact information, then she would know that you are looking forward to seeing her again.
51. Your first date at the park.
There is nothing wrong in doing your first date at the park. This is true, especially if your date has told you that she does not want to go to fancy places. By getting on a date at the park, you would be able to enjoy the view. Make it more interesting by cooking up foods for it.
52. Do not force yourself to like your date.
There is no need to force yourself to like the person you are dating for the first time, just because you think that he really looks well, and that he is nice. This is because, these are not the only factors that would determine the kind of relationship you may have with him in the future. To like a person, you should have certain things in common, which include your values.
53. See that your date is not too reliant on text messages and emails.
If you observe on your first date that your partner is too reliant to text messages and emails, then you should be careful. If you really like him, make sure that he does not use these forms of communication to get in contact with you. It is always best that he calls you, since it shows that he really cares for you by not depending on lazy forms of communication.
54. Looking at your date in the eye.
On your first date, it is a good idea to maintain eye contact when you are talking to her. However, you should only look at her eyes for a few seconds and look away from time to time, so that she won’t feel uncomfortable. Aside from that, staring can also be scary at times.
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